Just showing options

I participated the meeting. The meeting was overrun of 15 minutes and nothing was decided. I worried if we can make it in our schedule. I have felt like controlling others in this kind of situation by giving tons of directions from me.

But I've tried not to do that. I know the team would not work well, if I control someone with my directions. I had failed many times in this way. The important point for going the project smoothly is motivation from each people, is not strong directions from others. I know sometime directions form someone tired people who are given them. 

The only thing I can do in this situation is just showing the options as my opinion. When I say my opinion at the meeting, I need to make sure it for myself, "just showing options". Otherwise, I start to control the team with my words. It's my egoism and nobody wouldn't be happy by them. I will have the meeting again at this night. Well, let's see how it goes on.